1. Each of us is born with certain temperament traits that stay with us for the rest of our lives. There are also an equal number of others who are born with totally opposite temperament traits. The fact is none of us can help being who we are any more than others can help being who they are.

2. Result: This world is designed and defined by conflict. It seems that nature has a balance strategy that keeps conflict going on and on. It means that our world is an ongoing drama of people with opposing values, beliefs, and preferences, in never ending conflict without a solution.

3. Most humans deal with this conflict by one of three ways--avoiding it, overpowering their adversary to come out the victor or losing the battle with a blow to their self esteem. When one wins, another has to lose.

4. But the T-Code gives us tools to overcome this seemingly unsolvable problem of conflict we call life. The first step is to understand that this inevitable conflict can not be solved. This takes a lot of the unneccessary emotionalism out of your life--setting you free to explore other possibilities.

5. By explaining the actual conflicting dualities that genetically shape our temperaments, uncovering the preferences and values of each of the temperament types, and then demonstrating how the world works on these principles, this book makes sense out of the confusion.

6. The T-Code ultimately shows us the way out of the quagmire by letting us choose to rise above it all and not be overwhelmed with things we can't change. Then, become accepting and forgiving of others and thereby end up with a win/win solution to these conflicts.